Ok then

Spouse 1:

Would you go to marriage counseling with me?

Spouse 2:

If there is something you can fix I will

Spouse 1:

I can fix?

Spouse 2:

Yes

Spouse 1:

That is not what therapy is about. It's about fixing problems not affixing blame on one person or the other.

Spouse 2:

Then what's the point?

Spouse 1:

Forget I asked.